Values and Purpose

The Challenges Boys Face

Many young men today are finding themselves confused with no clue on how to become the purposeful and honorable men.

They are depressed, anxious, addicted to escapism, instant gratification, in the form of alcohol, drugs, gaming, social media or porn—many of which are symptomatic of underlying trauma.

And then, as parents, we tend to overcompensate. Do too much for our boys. Expect too little. A lack of boundaries in some homes has led to kids with an overblown sense of entitlement. The result: all too often, young men are lost, feeling broken, manifesting in “failure to launch”– a Peter Pan-like, perpetual adolescence.

In therapy, we help young men uncover the roots of their pain and challenge the distorted beliefs they’ve carried about themselves and the world. But true transformation happens through lived experience, through belonging, contribution, and participation in a community that calls them to see their potential and step into it. It’s in the day-to-day moments that they discover they are capable, valued, and far more than the limitations they once assumed. They begin to see the world differently, recognize their own strength, and step into maturity.

Traditional psychotherapy often begins with a focus on pathology, what’s wrong, and what must be fixed. At The Carpenter Shed, our approach is fundamentally different. We start from a non-pathological, purpose-driven perspective: these young men are not problems to be solved but potential to be realized.

As we work alongside them, we often uncover trauma, wounds that, if ignored, can fuel destructive thoughts, emotional turmoil, and harmful patterns of behavior. When that happens, our clinical team is skilled and prepared to engage directly, bringing healing and integration. Yet we never lose sight of the deeper truth: healing doesn’t end with the removal of pain. It culminates in growth, direction, and a renewed sense of identity.

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